Abandon Blind Faiths and Customs
People have held on to a number of blind faiths
and meaningless practices for centuries to
ensure that auspicious events unfold in life and
unpleasant situations get warded off. Blind faiths
are the baseless ‘convictions’ which are accepted
without logic and thoughtful considerations.
Science has made a tremendous progress; even
then in every corner of the world and in our
society too there are so many customs, practices
and faiths which are completely baseless.
There
is no dearth of people who get impressed by
orthodoxies and blindly accept these beliefs.
A very common belief is regarding an evil
eye (burº nazar), which stands for negative or
harmful powers. People adopt various practices
to save themselves from these.
For example,
people in India apply a small black mark to ward
off evil eye. Both in India and Pakistan lemon
is considered auspicious and is supposed to have
the potential to protect from negative powers. So
many people stitch together seven green chillies
and a lemon in a thread and hang them in front of
their homes or shops to protect them from the evil
eye. These are called ‘nazar battu’ and they are
replaced daily, weekly or fortnightly.
On festive occasions, people in India like to add
a rupee to the cash they offer as a gift and call it
‘sagun’.
It is believed that sagun adds good luck;
it is called as a blessing and love of elders and is
considered auspicious for the start of a new phase
of life. In India as well as many other countries in
the world it is believed that by throwing coins in the
rivers it is possible to ward off misfortune. In olden
times, the coins were made of silver or brass, and
both these metals cleanse the water and kill bacteria.
The main source of drinking water in earlier times
only used to be the rivers, and so throwing coins
in rivers was called auspicious. In today’s scenario
throwing coins is nothing but a blind belief.
Many people consider 13 as an unlucky number.
If a Friday falls on the 13th of the month, the day
is considered really inauspicious.
When a person
steps out of home for some work, asking him where
he is going is also not considered auspicious. It is
believed that this interruption results in failure of
the task which the person has set out for. Similarly,
if anyone sneezes once at the time of stepping out
it is considered inauspicious, while two sneezes
are considered a good sign. All these are also due
to orthodox, non-scientific thinking.
Like this there are many blind beliefs prevalent in our
country. For example, wearing a white shirt for an
important meeting or work brings success. Hanging
a picture or poster of a girl with tears in eyes brings
misfortune.
It is not good to keep shoes or sandals
below the cot because they bring bad dreams in
sleep. If a new dress is worn and an unhappy event
unfolds that day, then the dress should not be worn
again. Entering house or office with the right foot
first is auspicious. If a wall lizard falls on a person,
it is an indication to be careful for the next few days.
If a spider climbs on a person, it indicates that new
clothes will be bought soon. Using white bed spreads
for sleeping and white sheets for covering up brings
an early death. A clock that has stopped working
should be taken off the wall immediately because a
stopped clock indicates that further progress in life
would come to a standstill.
Japan has won a lot of acclaim in this modern
technological era, but Japanese people still carry
some convictions that are a bit strange. For
example, they consider the numbers 4 and 7 as
inauspicious. If Japanese is offered room number
4 on the 4th floor of a hotel, he does not stay there.
Taiwanese also regard number 4 as inauspicious.
So they never have room number 4 on the fourth
floor of their hotels. A blind belief in Taiwan is
that number 4 is linked with sudden death. In
Taiwan, red colour is linked with happiness and
joy. So in marriages, along with the bride’s dress,
her footwear, and bridegroom’s handkerchief
and tie are also red in colour. Japanese believe
that if a person even once in his life gets to see a
white snake, his life gets filled with luxuries and
successes. So they hang pictures of a white snake
on their walls and see it daily. They also believe
that if snakeskin is kept in purse or locker, it
would always remain filled with money.
In Thailand it is commonly believed that if a snake
wrangles a person tightly in a dream this means
that the person is going to get married pretty soon.
They also have a blind faith that number 6 always
gives adverse result. Since number 6 on inversion
becomes 9, so with number 6 all the good luck
can easily get changed into bad luck. Japanese and
Koreans consider a gift wrapped in white paper
as inauspicious. So they never wrap their gifts
in white paper. Europeans consider exchanging
bouquets of flowers as auspicious, as long as no
brown coloured flowers are in them. Chinese do
not like to gift each other wall clocks.
Koreans believe that lovers must not give footwear
like shoes, sandals etc. to each other as gifts,
otherwise their love and friendship may come to
an end. They also believe that during examination
days one must not wash hair because when water
is poured over head, all that is memorized for exam
also gets washed away. Turkish people believe
that if someone wishes for something standing
in between two people with identical names, the
wish definitely gets fulfilled.
They also believe
that if one feels itchy on the right palm, he would
receive money and if he feels itchy on the left palm
he would have to part with money. There is also a
belief that if food falls on clothes while eating it is
a sign that some guest will be arriving.
People in Argentina believe that if a coin is found
on street it should be kept carefully because it
will open doors to good fortune and bring a lot of
riches. According to a belief in Brazil if you put
sugar in the cup before putting coffee you can get
very rich. In Russia looking at oneself in a broken
mirror is considered inauspicious.
Another belief
is that if someone forgets something at home and
has to return to pick it up, he should see himself
in mirror before restarting as this brings success.
People in Italy believe that if someone ventures
into water after eating he can die. South Koreans
believe that if they sleep under a switched on
fan they can die. As a result, their fans always
have a timer so that the fans get switched off
automatically after some time. Russians believe
that if a bird dirties a person, he will acquire fame.
In several countries, a black cat cutting across the
way is considered inauspicious and it is advised
to take seven steps back before starting again.
There are many such blind faiths and beliefs
prevalent all over the world and people believe in
them seriously.
In this progressive world people
should reject such false beliefs and move ahead
by adopting discretionary wisdom.
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