Live in the Present and Shape the Future
A prolific Brazilian writer, Paulo Coelho, says -
“In magic - and in life - there is only the present
moment, the now. You can’t measure time the
way you measure the distance between two
points. ‘Time’ doesn’t pass. We human beings
have enormous difficulty in focusing on the
present; we’re always thinking about what we
did, about how we could have done it better,
about the consequences of our actions, and
about why we didn’t act as we should have.
Or else we think about the future, about what
we’re going to do tomorrow, what precautions
we should take, what dangers await us around
the next corner, how to avoid what we don’t
want and how to get what we have always
dreamed of.” True! Our mind seldom stays in
the present. Usually it keeps wandering either
in the past or in future. It is beneficial to think
for the betterment of ourselves and our loved
ones, but it is wrong to neglect the present for
the sake of it because present is that platform on
which we stand and by walking through which
we create the path to the future course.
There are some points which should be kept in
mind for efficiently managing the present and
simultaneously materializing our future dreams.
The first and most important point is to decide
the short term and long term goals of life. Having
done so, we should adopt a logical approach
towards planning our actions to achieve those
goals. While planning, we should take into
consideration whether the achievement of our
short term goals would contribute to the ultimate
aim of life or not.
We should ask ourselves where do we see
ourselves about 10 to 15 years from now and
leading what sort of a life? Do not impose any
restrictions on yourself, but think about every
desire and dream carefully and analyze whether
your desires are matching with your actions. This
means that the activities of the present should be
analyzed on the basis of to what extent they could
fulfill our aspirations for the future.
Give some time daily to fulfill the higher ambition
(the ultimate aim). Augment your knowledge
and experiences in that field and have unfailing
confidence on your potentials.
When you start acting on your plan, very often
there would be hurdles, obstacles, setbacks,
and the resulting delays and disappointments.
In order to tackle such situations, think that
everything in life is temporary. Every time
it rains, it stops raining. After the darkness
of night, there is always the dawn of light.
Nothing lasts forever. So if things are good
right now, enjoy it. It won’t last forever. If
things are bad, don’t worry because it won’t
last forever either.
Please keep in mind, worrying and complaining
won’t help at all. In this context, someone has
rightly said – ‘When the door of happiness closes,
another opens; but, often times, we look so long
at the closed door that we don’t even see the new
one which has been opened for us.’ Spending
today complaining about yesterday won’t make
tomorrow any brighter. Take action instead. Let
your experience help improve your life. Make a
change and never look back.
Be an optimist. In his autobiography titled
Long Walk to Freedom, Nelson Mandela, says
– “I am fundamentally an optimist. Whether
that comes from nature or nurture, I cannot
say. Part of being optimistic is keeping one’s
head pointed toward the sun, one’s feet moving
forward. There were many dark moments when
my faith in humanity was sorely tested, but
I would not and could not give myself up to
despair. That way lays defeat and death.”
In conclusion, we should not lose our present for our
future, but should also not be so much overwhelmed
by our present that we may be totally unaware of
the future. We should live in the present keeping the
ultimate aim in mind; and make realistic plans and
execute them sincerely and earnestly.
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